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My Name is ________” – A Reflection on Personal Identity Our names are often the first things people learn about us, and they have a powerful influence on our sense of identity. Whether we identify with our given name, a nickname, or a self-chosen pseudonym, our names can carry deep meaning and shape how we see ourselves in the world. For me, my name has always been a source of both pride and anxiety. I was named after a family member who had passed away, and I have always felt a strong connection to that person's legacy. At the same time, I have struggled with the pressure of living up to their name and expectations. In recent years, I have also begun to explore other names that feel more reflective of my own personality and values. I have started using different variations of my given name, and I have also experimented with pseudonyms in creative projects. Through these experiences, I have come to see my name as a fluid and ever-evolving aspect of my identity. It is not something that is fixed or predetermined, but rather something that I can shape and redefine over time. This is a powerful realization, because it means that I have the power to choose who I want to be and how I want to be known in the world. It also means that I can embrace the multifaceted and sometimes contradictory aspects of my identity, rather than feeling like I have to fit into a certain mold. Ultimately, whether we go by our given name, a nickname, or a self-chosen pseudonym, our names are a reminder of our unique and precious existence in the world. They are a source of connection to our past, present, and future, and they can help us navigate the complexities of our identity and purpose in life. As we continue to explore who we are and who we want to be, let us celebrate the power and beauty of our names, and embrace all the possibilities they hold.