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Story of a Pisces Girl: Naming and Identity Growing up as a Pisces girl, I’ve always been intrigued by the mysteries of the universe, the unseen world that lies beyond our mundane reality. However, my fascination with astrology wasn’t simply a philosophical curiosity – it also had a very practical impact on my life: the choice of my name. You see, in Chinese culture, it’s common for parents to give their children a “míngmìng” (literally “enlightened name”), which is based on the child’s zodiac sign and other astrological factors. For Pisces, the suggested names often include characters that represent water, creativity, and spirituality. My parents, being traditional but also independent-minded, didn’t want to follow the formula blindly. So, they consulted a renowned astrologer who specializes in the Western Zodiac, and asked for a name that would reflect both the qualities of Pisces and our family’s values. After much deliberation, they settled on a name that combines the English words “sea” and “hope”. It’s not a typical Chinese name, but it sounds harmonious and has a poetic meaning that resonates with my soul. However, the journey of defining my identity and finding my voice didn’t stop there. As a Pisces, I have a tendency to be empathetic, imaginative, and sensitive. I often feel overwhelmed by the emotions and energies of others, as well as the vastness of the universe. Sometimes, I struggle to assert myself and pursue my own dreams, for fear of disappointing or hurting others. Thankfully, I’ve found a community of like-minded people who encourage me to embrace my uniqueness and express myself creatively. Whether it’s through writing, painting, or dancing, I’ve learned to channel my emotions and intuitions into art that speaks to me and others. I’ve also embraced my dual nature as a dreamer and a doer, and strive to balance my passive and active energies in a way that honors my values and goals. So, to all the Pisces girls out there: don’t be afraid to be yourself, even if it means swimming against the stream. Your sensitivity and imagination are gifts that can inspire and heal others, but also need to be protected and nurtured. Your name is just the beginning of your story – it’s up to you to write the rest.